Let's talk about the ROI no one mentions... Return on Intimacy.
It's possible to redesign a relationship that recharges your battery and powers your success.
​But it doesn't happen by accident. It requires investment.
WELCOME TO THE LAB
The Relational Architecture Lab (RAL) is where we dig in and get dirty, uncovering and re-designing the old patterns that suck your energy and suffocate the fire in your relationship. Connection happens at a foundational level. Through a clear process tailored to your needs, you learn to rebuild the kind of trust and intimacy that adds fuel to every area of your life.
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You’re not bad at relating.
You’ve just been using the wrong blueprint.
No pitch. No flowcharts. Just a conversation.
Let's talk.
ROI (Return on Intimacy)
– Relational ROI
Most folks will spend 10k on a business course without blinking.
Investing in your relationship can't be written off as a business expense, but ignoring relational ruptures is costing you more than you realise.
The question most folks don't ask: "What's the cost to me if this relationship fails?" It's hard to give it a price tag, but the cost is life altering.
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Research is clear: Healthy relationships fuel your focus, your resilience, and your capacity to lead well in all other areas. The ROI on connection is enormous.
It just doesn't fit nicely into a spreadsheet.
Not written off. Not optional.
The Process Inside the Lab
Constructing your Breakthrough Blueprint
The Lab Cycle is how we systematically approach change, with big heart.
This is why it's called the Lab...it's a safe space for you to learn and experiment.
Survey + Assess
Identify the Problems
This is ground zero. We look at the "load-bearing walls" and identify the cracks in the foundation. (Common spirals, triggers, pain points.) It's the critical investigative phase that lets us set the focus, and create a tailored and clear plan of action.
Blueprint Design
Prepare Strategies
New ways of interacting.
We stress-test and build capacity and strategies: healthy boundaries, communication reframes, managing downward spirals, trust, and repair. Here I teach you the tools to prototype a new way of relating.
Field Work
Real World Practice
Field work is where theory meets real world application. You're given practical assignments and the chance to experiment and gather tangible data. We take your findings back into the Lab where we refine, finesse, and re-deploy.
Ribbon Cutting
Review + Celebrate Your Successes
You've become a Relational Architect.
Structure is solid. Blueprints in hand. Confidently equipped to exit the Lab. You possess tools and clarity to continue building your relationship, and to work with new challenges as they arise. The goal of the lab is not to stay, but to enter with a challenge, and exit with a clear strategy that works for you.
Ready to transform your relationship?
This Isn’t Demolition.
It’s Intentional Renovation.
We’re not tearing everything down. We are renovating to create a relationship space you love to be in. Give yourself permission to enjoy your relationship again.
BEFORE THE LAB
Lost. Frustrated. Drained.
The space meant to restore you keeps draining your battery.
You’re sharp and clear at work, but lost in translation at home.
Connection and intimacy feels like a puzzle you can’t quite solve.
AFTER THE LAB
Ease. Trust. Lightness.
You own your relationship, and feel fuelled by your connection.
You feel confident, and trust yourself to find the way back to connection.
Connection becomes a conscious choice, not a mystery.
Lab Offers
Structure, support, and intentional space to practise and grow.
Designed to meet you where you are now in your relationship.
(Packages start from CHF 700)
Emergency Lab
1 Month Emergency Intensive, for critical crossroads: an ultimatum, rupture, or critical conversation you’ve been avoiding.
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2 extended, deep-dive sessions​ to assess, explore, and build a plan
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Tailored relational frameworks
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Personalised exercises​​
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Not a substitute for the full Lab, but quick and focused support.
Signature Lab
The complete 3-month build, from initial assessment to practical frameworks you actually use.
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2 Sessions per month (6 total)
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Focused RAL blueprint
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Tailored relational frameworks
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Personalised exercises​
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6 Months access to all RAL events and group sessions
Structure, support, and intentional space to practise and create.
Premium Lab
Everything in the Standard Lab, plus closer access and faster momentum.
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3 sessions per month (9 total)
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Focused RAL blueprint
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Tailored relational frameworks
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Personalised exercises
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Between-session support​
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9 Months access to all RAL events and group sessions​
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Intensive structure, increased support, space to dig deeper.
Still not sure which Lab is right for you?
Hey! I’m Rebecca.
I've spent most of my life translating between worlds. Louisiana-born, Switzerland-based for fifteen years, working across thirty-plus cultures. I worked a decade as an Interior Architect before I realised that the architecture I care most about is the invisible constructs: how we build our internal structure, and how that construction determines our capacity to connect and thrive in life.
I'm obsessed with relational dynamics and the art of connecting. I've learned through intensive experimentation and exploration, and I love introducing this work to others and watching their relationships transform. I work with big love, lots of humour, and fierce compassion... I'm far from perfect, but I delight in growth.
I have genuine friendships with both my exes. I facilitated part of my ex-husband's wedding reception to his new wife (who I love!), and co-parent Xavi (our nutty dog) with my ex-partner. This capacity is not because I'm wired differently. It's because I have built an internal structure that supports the beautiful life I want to create.
I'm not your therapist. I'm the trusted friend with a flashlight — reflecting the truth back with warmth, honesty, and lightness.
COACHING HOURS
+3'000
CULTURES
+30
"Rebecca, it was so rich and positive and wonderful today. The work we did on redefining success for me in my relationship is much stronger than you realize. I will explain next time… anyway thanks a lot. This means a lot for me.”
“I was thinking of how grateful I am for our time together. How you always see the positive side in things and help me accept my failures, guilt and incompetence in a non-judgemental way. I am learning… and you are such an important part of it. Thank you!"​
“Thank you Rebecca, today was both very touching and very helpful. I am still scared, but I have the courage to be authentic. The work with you gives me trust and courage, clarity and joy.”​